MEANTEASE part one

Are superior women born mean ?

There are no studies to help Me contextualize this one briefly. I decided to divide this post in two to make the point. So while it is long, I found it necessary to build up in scale. I do believe you will enjoy the finish….slaves have My permission up front.

I think we’d all agree that some women are just born mean and that others have to learn how. But I think that Masters and slaves alike would agree Dominance shouldn’t be chalked up to merely treating people like dirt. Taking license with others feelings is a refined skill that requires some experience to be an effective tool for control. An approach to being mean entails a credo or a philosophy to justify Ones methods. Mine as you may remember is that of the sadistic altruist. Looking for holes in a slave’s armor takes pains of discipline in its own right. I reserve that right as it pleases Me to distinguish Myself as the superior once I am done. After all, there isn’t much to just being cunty or a person who sets out to intimidate because of hurt pride. To be mean effective you can’t be stern or inflict pain just because you have been slighted or offended. Meanness within the craft of BDSM can sustain the art of discipline as a reinforcer. It should be used to emphasize, not justify, that One is in charge, makes the rules, and refuses avoidance by way of excuses.

Of course in order to maintain such a program of strictness One must remind Herself over and over who She is and why She retains this control…..like a queen, why She deserves this respect and what makes Her so honorable. Its more than being mean you see, it’s a matter of quality control so to speak. It’s simply what one is born and bred to do. Like a birthright made righteous, One may have been born into a world of mean, but from that world She formulates her own brand.

Now we’ve all had influences in our lives. Humans are not the products of an immaculate conception. We’ve seen things and read things and heard things. We like or dislike in keeping with our upbringing and whereabouts. When it comes to fetish, we can all make attributions to this or that thing- object or person- we hold responsible. One thing that makes Me unique in this sense is that I was thrown into BDSM without a safeword. I relied on My own skills to pull through. I had not the benefit of a teacher or instruction or warnings. I simply did what came natural to learn and to protect Myself, and I still do. Perhaps that is why I am poised to speak with such candor. It’s an aspect of ME that has spared Me from becoming jaded or disgusted and kept Me mean with good reason.

Apathy is one of the key pitfalls to sustaining a healthy interest in kink. I was able to perceive this early on. That’s why now I can sit back and run through the memories and make the gleeful assumptions I do about human nature and behavior. It’s why my interest is still piqued about fetish and domination of males and why I enjoy to clue you in. I would not be believable however if I did not divulge the influences I did have. Of course there were many, just none that deserve credit or shall I say none that would take it. Ilsa Strix and Irene Boss to name two you’d know. To name two you probably don’t, both deceased, Her immanence Monique Von Clef and the depraved dowager, Edith Cadivec. And then there is none other than Leg Show’s, Diane Hanson.

A consummate perv working with the likes of other legendary pervs like Elmer Batters, in the late 80’s Diane Hanson was in charge content for Leg Show magazine. I gained an education about fetish from the many years she reigned as editor in chief. One had only to look in those pages and see not just what churned her wheels but those of her readers. She had a keen (and mean) sense of what makes the fetish mind tick and what the slave finds irresistible. I have no doubt she ruined more than few submissive males with the then budding idea of cuckolding without them even realizing she( or it) had hold. A warning should have been included: Be Careful What you Wish For. Once they spanked it to Leg Show the orgasms only solidified what was on shaky ground already, masculinity. Would be men think they can handle it, but the continuous cravings for more override all sensibilities. Before you know it, you’re done .

I admit a similar thing happened to Me. Being a newbie I had an obsession to grasp the inclinations of the slave. I too could not resist what she put forth as truth to what submissive men, in particular sissies, are capable of. More importantly, I was amazed to learn what dominant women were entitled to. In fact I may be guilty of over identifying with the fierce sensuality, raw passion, and purposefully designed insatiable sex drives described and depicted.
Borrowing from something I once heard Ilsa say in an interview…..Did this brand of mean get into Me or did I get into it?

Cuming Clean, I attribute My brand of mean, that is, what I believe about real men and what I believe about males who slave to panties and stockings and feet and yes, ass too, to what I saw and read in those pages Myself. Why do I mention ass in a category where it would seemingly not belong —just remembered that old sesame street tune….one of these words just doesn’t belong here…one of these words just isn’t the same… hahahha Anyway why do I ???? Well, the magazine had a way of equating the anus as theeee prize to be had for being a good slave- a reward for males incapable of appreciating a women and Her offerings over and above the rose bud……let’s say things a real man lusts after that the fetishist may fail to notice- the more obvious tits & pussy.

If you are reading this and you have your doubts, you are guilty of it yourself. Perhaps for you tits & pussy are not sophisticated enough a turn on. Maybe you think yourself special for your tastes when it comes to your hard on, big or small- you are not, not as a man anyway. you merely possess the potential to be an ass licker yourself. you have either been trained that way already and need a good dose of this brand humility to recommit to your station in life, or you, like I said in My last post, will succumb to the power of suggestion. Like magic ….poof! you will now become entranced by what is the epicenter of an asseaters universe every time you see one.

I realize this sort of talk may be new for some and it is indeed a challenge to soften the language and the blow to your egos as well but I am up for it …… Oh How I am! If I need, I have a bevy of mags I can tune into for inspiration but the one I have in mind now has this lusty wench squeezing her ass cheeks open for peek while smirking deviously over her shoulder. you can tell she is aiming in the pose to show both Her expression and Her attributes with a sadistic charm only a women of Her caliber can. There are few dignified poses a highly desirable women can assume to display the area in focus without looking slutty Herself. And I might add, there are few Dominants who can sit here and write about it with the intent to seduce as well control. I will attempt to master it as brilliantly as She did in the form of a simile…….it’s like taking a piece of box candy and delicately separating it into two halves to see if you got the creamy pink center you were hoping for. I’d call that a mean tease, wouldn’t you?

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2 Responses to “MEANTEASE part one”

  • nyjewboysub says:

    Great observations. Interesting, i used to be a devoted consumer of Leg Show and it most definitely reinforced my kink and submissive tendencies with every stroke. She most defitely underatood the working of the male submissive psyche.

  • mark says:

    I remember vividly that particular image from Leg Show. I masturbated to it frequently, as I did to Your description of it, Goddess Justicia. It was the picture I “shot my load” to for a long time, until I threw it out in one of my “purges,” meant to usher in an era of “reform.” Of course I regret that now. I believe the model was one of those tall worldly, womanly types that Leg Show often showcased- a touch of the forties’ about her, a wavy brunette, wearing something yellow, perhaps with a short frilly skirt? I believe that the accompanying text urged me, the frankly acknowledged weakling masturbator (and incipient sissy) to look at her anus while ejaculating, which of course I did. It made and makes so much sense to me that the woman’s anus should be the focus of the weak sissy male lust.

    I’ve come to this website only very recently, so I have a lot of reading to do. I’m very interested and frightened. Thank you,

    mark

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